I've been shopping for something to upsize from a CR-V and I have to say I prefer the styling of the Passport over the Pilot. I've seen that the ground clearance is a little higher on the Passport, which is handy since we like to take a few dirt trails when on vacation. (I would even think that the Traxda lift kit for the Ridgeline/Pilot should fit into the Passport, which would add another two inches.)
A couple of things bothered me about the Passport. One is that it has that ZF transmission--I had the worst car owning experience ever with a German automobile, and I've read many unfavorable things about ZF transmissions in general that I want to avoid them, not just on Hondas. (That is partly why I'm looking at a Pilot EX-L as opposed to any higher models.)
The other has to do with colors. I noticed that the exterior colors are primarily dark. Not all of us want dark colors, and I won't have silver, grey or black as exterior colors. And I can't live with a depressing grey interior anymore--I had that for 33 years over numerous cars. (I'm really liking the tan interior of my CR-V.) Black might be OK, but I don't care for how it shows every bit of dirt, dust or flaws; I'm not a slob, but can be picky on how "clean" the interior looks. There is no ivory/tan interior.
I do like the overall package of the Passport--the new trim (front grille especially) really gives it a nicer look. I never had use for a third row seat, so I wouldn't miss it.