Using a 24x7 bluetooth battery monitor + app and showing your mechanics/Honda the graphs over time may be helpful in your case (as well as seeing if/how this changes after they potentially make some change(s) to fix it). However, also check with your Honda dealer if you are concerned about warranty, etc... with such use. For me on my gen2 Pilot (2012), this has been non problematic thus far and just directly connects to the battery under the hood, and the small monitor sits on top of the battery, using a small amount of power from battery itself to power it. I have found the data extremely helpful and intriguing, trying to better understand the underlying logic Honda is using to determine when alternator is high power charging vs. not, when I potentially may have problems (eg, is voltage really too low and am I noticing problems when the voltage seems to be too low?), as well as the overall battery voltage and SoC at any time X for historical comparison. IMHO, I think a detailed battery monitor like this should be installed in every vehicle out there, especially useful when there are suspected electrical/charging problems. I have no doubt that both the gen3 and gen4 Pilots have different programming/physical components/etc... for its charging design, so my data shouldn't be used for these models. Nonetheless, I think it is reasonable to assume there will be similarities seen due to similar Honda design.
Regarding overall AGM battery life experience for us, for our 2012 Pilot Touring, I had replaced our original lead acid non AGM 24F battery in 10/2016 with a Die Hard AGM 34R battery(775 CCA) at ~74K miles. In the 2012 Pilot model, the 34R battery is compatible vs. the 24F, having slightly larger CCA vs. the 24F. This AGM battery lasted nearly 6.5 years and ~77K miles, replaced in 3/2023, so average of about 12K miles/year. The new 3/2023 battery replacement is a Die Hard AGM 24F(710 CCA) since I couldn't find a reasonably priced 34R AGM battery at that time. For our driving pattern, my wife drives short distance to work most days, but we also make avg of at least 1/month 3 hour long highway trip, so most miles put on with these highway trips. There is no doubt charging behaves differently at different times, but I have determined via interpretation of the data (by knowing conditions/where/how I am driving at time X and comparing to the real-time voltage/SoC/cranking voltage graphs seen with the BM6 app at the same time while I am driving, as well as the collective data over months) the variables are more complex than just short vs. long trips. Other variables include outside temperature, what accessories are on, etc... There are even times when full 14.1V-14.3V charging continuously happens at low speeds/short trips, as well as times when the low charging 12.4V-12.9V is occurring at highway speeds.
Regardless of all of this and how much the vehicle is driven(and I think a key take away point), by the time each morning comes, even when driven for an hour+ at 100% SoC the evening before parking the vehicle, SoC will typically be below 80%(summer) and below 60%(winter) due to the constant draw that the on board computer, etc... consumes while the vehicle is not running, natural decrease of voltage values as outside temperatures decline, etc.... Lately, as it has gotten colder out(in non-heated garage; outside temp ~25-40 F to date), but certainly not(yet) the extreme cold it can get in MN, morning SoC is often in the 40% - 50% range, or ~ 12.2V - 12.3V. I am eager to see if/how this changes over the next 3 months of deep winter.
As another data collection example, in the fall we went on a long vacation and the Pilot sat idle for a total of 20 days. I charged the battery fully with an external charger prior to leaving. Outside temperature was in the 40 - 70 F range during these 20 days. Battery voltage went from 12.90V - 11.88V during this time frame, SoC from 100% to 22% (both a steady continuous decline over the 20 days). Upon seeing this in return from our trip, I expected I would have problems starting the Pilot, but didn't. However, the BM6 battery monitor mentioned previously also collects "low voltage starts"(< 9.6V) and did collect the following, but ONLY for the first start on return. The Pilot then ran for 18 minutes, getting up to 37% SoC, I re-started again 35 minutes later with an acceptable 10.58V cranking volts:
Cranking voltage | Cranking time | Status |
We have not had any known or perceived issues since getting the new battery in March. However, I still don't know if what I am seeing here is "normal", thus wanting comparison with other Pilots, ideally gen2, but think gen3 and gen4 should be included as well. I have plans to show some of these voltage/SoC graphs from the app soon, but plan to do so either on my sudden RPM.... post or creating a new one.