Finally made some time to do this. I put tape on the tab and bent it towards the front with needle nose pliers . It fits good with tape, so I left it on, we'll see if it lasts.
Stories about some dealers (mostly service managers) kill me. It's not so much they don't know,its that they'll do anything not to have to bring a car in for warranty work.
Just like in the seat heater thread, owners with issues getting told all kinds of crazy reasons that their heaters are fine and 'that's how they're supposed to work'..cripes.
Worked as a mechanic 40 yrs ago (MB, Volvo, BMW dealer) for a few yrs. and saw these service managers/writers in action. They'd give it a shot and most people would believe them and not come back.