I am the second owner of this 04 Pilot. The previous owner told me he had a receiving hitch installed on the truck. Last week I installed the ball for the hitch. I was going to rent a trailer and the company refused because there isn’t anywhere to connect the lights. I can’t find the connector plug anywhere and neither could the trailer rental dude. I would like to install the kit to use a trailer but I don’t even know where to start. I would think the previous owner would have had that all worked out having the hitched installed to the frame and everything. Any advice is appreciated. Thanks!