I chose these:
Buy iBrightstar Newest 9-30V Extremely Bright DE3175 DE3021 Festoon LED Bulbs Error Free 1.25" 31mm for Interior Map Dome Lights and License Plate Courtesy Lights, Xenon White: Courtesy Step Lights - Amazon.com ✓ FREE DELIVERY possible on eligible purchases
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Fair warning, they are bright. I'm not sure if they're
too bright yet, but it's a concern. I'll have to see how I feel after some night driving.
I also bought these switches to replace the ones in my map light housings:
Buy Koauto Compatible with 2/Set Dome Lamp Switches Crosstour Accord CR-V Element Odyssey Pilot New: Interior Light - Amazon.com ✓ FREE DELIVERY possible on eligible purchases
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The contacts required a little sanding to remove rust on them, but it was an easy job overall, thanks to our sticky on the subject.
For the other LEDs, I used these in the dome lights and the doors:
Buy 10-Pack 194 LED Bulb, LBRST Error Free T10 LED Bulb, White 6000K Super Bright 168 LED Bulb, 921 2825 W5W LED Replacement Bulb for Dome Map Door Instrument Licenses Plate Light: Lighting - Amazon.com ✓ FREE DELIVERY possible on eligible purchases
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They're not too bright, but they illuminate very well. I'm happy with them so far.