Just had our second flat and first destroyed tire on oem Bridgestone. 2019 ex-l awd. Replaced with Michelin at 13k miles. If previous experience on this tire comes true, it’s the best possible upgrade for this car.
Could it be the environment you're driving in that's contributing to the tire problems. Debris frequently on the roads, lots of construction in the area, driving off pavement, pot holes/poorly maintained roads, etc? My wife is oblivious to debris on the road and frequently runs over nails, bolts, large chunks of stuff, and massive potholes. Many flats and a bent rim. I can't blame it on the tires.