I have the exact same issue with the same symptoms. P0741 code. drives Perfectly fine! warning comes on at about 65mph. I did the many drain and refills and no changes. But I have always changed my trans fluid religiously at 15K so I don't think it was broken down fluids... i have a 2017 6sp EX-L AWD. So now My mechanic will be replacing the torque converter... He said he will check the TC solenoid valve too. This reeeaaaally stinks$$
I put on the VCM bypass on at 50K now I have a bad TC at 77K. I do have a history of towing a small camper under the 5K limit. Mechanic said Pilots were never meant to tow a camper. Weak transmission etc... I have the trans cooler that was put on when I bought the car new! I certainly did everything right and I now have a bad TC. To double check the diagnosis I called the Honda dealer and they said when that code comes on they replace the TC and all is fine... So I'm hoping its the fix!
I put on the VCM bypass on at 50K now I have a bad TC at 77K. I do have a history of towing a small camper under the 5K limit. Mechanic said Pilots were never meant to tow a camper. Weak transmission etc... I have the trans cooler that was put on when I bought the car new! I certainly did everything right and I now have a bad TC. To double check the diagnosis I called the Honda dealer and they said when that code comes on they replace the TC and all is fine... So I'm hoping its the fix!