I think the gold emblem package would look good with just about every color Pilot......except Silver. I own a silver one and I just can't imagine it with a gold package on it. The Honda silver is more of a grayish silver and just doesn't lend itself to anything gold. Now, on the other hand, my sister-in-law has a silver Highlander and I have to say that it is the prettiest silver color I have ever seen-- a light shimmery silver with a lot of gold in it, almost a champagne color. That would look very nice with the gold package.
My salesman told me that the gold package was actually developed with the white Pilots in mind. I saw a Havasu Blue at the dealership with the gold, that also didn't look very good.