From what I've seen on the various forums (including HondaCR-V.org) a lot of people with 1st gen 'Vs have already plunked down their deposits for the new Pilot. Likewise, many 1st gen 'Vers have been lured by the 2nd gen 'V. It's a tough choice, but IMO the 2nd gen 'V is the better choice for folks with small families (2 or fewer kids), while the Pilot would be the way to go if you have more than 2 kids or a boat to tow.
Here are some advantages of each off the top of my head in no particular order. I'm sure someone else can come up with a more exhaustive / accurate list
Advantages of CR-V v. Pilot:
1) sunroof! (on EX models)
2) rear hatch glass that opens
3) more rear leg room
4) better gas mileage
5) less maintenance required for RT4WD system
6) manual tranny is available for those who like to shift
7) picnic table
8) can access skinny off-road trails due to its width
9) center flip down tray table / pass through to rear seats
10) new intelligent VTEC v. the Pilot's presumably dumb VTEC
11) better ground clearance (yeah, I know it's only got a 0.1" advantage, but a win is a win :2:
12) I'm guessing the 'V has better approach and departure angles, but I'm not sure
13) turning radius
14) full size apare tire
15) cool e-brake location facilitating pass through
16) styling (okay, this is just my opinion)
17) first SUV tested by NHTSA to ever receive 5 star ratings in each of their 4 crash test categories (although Pilot will likely receive the same scores eventually)
18) A/T shifter is on the dash facilitating pass through
19) more fun to drive (subjective, but it's fun to toss the 'V around cuz of its comparatively nimble size and weight).
20) braking distance (I assume).
Advantages of Pilot v. CR-V:
1) VTM-4 system's low speed lock mode and acceleration mode
2) towing capacity (although tranny/steering cooler is not required to tow with 'V)
3) cargo capacity (although the CR-V's opening hatch glass may make it more useful in certain situations)
4) 3rd row seat
5) optional navi (although it's also available on CR-Vs overseas)
6) optional dvd entertainment system (although I've got one in my 'V and I'm sure mine sounds MUCH better
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7) steering wheel radio controls (I think the Pilot has this, not sure)
8) leather seating option (although leather seating is available on the CR-V in Canada and overseas)
9) acceleration (although by less than a second 0-60, and by less than a half second in the case of the 5 speed 'V)
10) shoulder and hip room cuz of the Pilot's wide girth
Well, since I came up with twice as many advantages for the 'V as I did for the Pilot, I guess the 'V wins
Here are some advantages of each off the top of my head in no particular order. I'm sure someone else can come up with a more exhaustive / accurate list
Advantages of CR-V v. Pilot:
1) sunroof! (on EX models)
2) rear hatch glass that opens
3) more rear leg room
4) better gas mileage
5) less maintenance required for RT4WD system
6) manual tranny is available for those who like to shift
7) picnic table
8) can access skinny off-road trails due to its width
9) center flip down tray table / pass through to rear seats
10) new intelligent VTEC v. the Pilot's presumably dumb VTEC
11) better ground clearance (yeah, I know it's only got a 0.1" advantage, but a win is a win :2:
12) I'm guessing the 'V has better approach and departure angles, but I'm not sure
13) turning radius
14) full size apare tire
15) cool e-brake location facilitating pass through
16) styling (okay, this is just my opinion)
17) first SUV tested by NHTSA to ever receive 5 star ratings in each of their 4 crash test categories (although Pilot will likely receive the same scores eventually)
18) A/T shifter is on the dash facilitating pass through
19) more fun to drive (subjective, but it's fun to toss the 'V around cuz of its comparatively nimble size and weight).
20) braking distance (I assume).
Advantages of Pilot v. CR-V:
1) VTM-4 system's low speed lock mode and acceleration mode
2) towing capacity (although tranny/steering cooler is not required to tow with 'V)
3) cargo capacity (although the CR-V's opening hatch glass may make it more useful in certain situations)
4) 3rd row seat
5) optional navi (although it's also available on CR-Vs overseas)
6) optional dvd entertainment system (although I've got one in my 'V and I'm sure mine sounds MUCH better
7) steering wheel radio controls (I think the Pilot has this, not sure)
8) leather seating option (although leather seating is available on the CR-V in Canada and overseas)
9) acceleration (although by less than a second 0-60, and by less than a half second in the case of the 5 speed 'V)
10) shoulder and hip room cuz of the Pilot's wide girth
Well, since I came up with twice as many advantages for the 'V as I did for the Pilot, I guess the 'V wins