My gosh. All these opinions and no help. Thanks, guys.
There are a lot of people using LED headlights that are either designed or adjusted incorrectly and can temporarily blind oncoming drivers. I bought a set of BeamTech bulbs for the 2012 Pilot headlights, DRLs, and fog lights off of Amazon. I ordered two of each before I realized two bulbs come in each box. Amazon sent a UPS truck to pickup the extras and gave me a full credit.
They work great, no fans, no ballasts, no flicker, no blinding of oncoming traffic and an easy install after I took off the bumper (mostly to more easily get at the back of the fog lights).
I ran a pattern test on my garage door comparing the LEDs to the OEM halogens and they were aimed stock the same. Identical top cutoff line.
I also took a picture of them headon at the height of the top of the steering wheel of a half dozen cars I measured and there was no blinding glare at the lowest measured height.
I've had them in for about a year, and have yet to see one oncoming driver flash their brights at me. Not one, honest.
The increase in night visibility is remarkable, especially the high beams!