Yup, I’m on Tacoma World too. That site has a lot of chatter/bickering/etc., that you don’t find on here, to go along with lots of good information on maintenance/upgrades.
I think a lot of the differences between the sites have to do with who buys Pilots versus Tacomas. You will find not many folks mod their Pilots. But stick around long enough on this site and you’ll find lots of knowledgeable folks who are willing to share what they know to help you get an issue resolved.
This forum has been the next best decision I made with the purchase of my Pilot. There’s almost nothing about the vehicle that hasn’t been discussed. It’s just buried and you may need to search for it.