Pilot v. Jeep
As a former jeep owner (actually, lessee) I can shed some light on your problem. First of all, since your brother-in-law has two kids I'd bring up safety first. The Pilot is expected to receive 5 star safety ratings. Second, go for the Honda reliability. My 99 Grand Cherokee lost its transmission at 12,000 miles on Chrismas Eve in rural Massachusetts. Not only was it zero degrees out, but Jeep roadside assistance took hours to arrive. You don't want to put your wife and kids through that, believe me.
Jeep MPG 16 consistently, Pilot anywhere from 20 to 23 MPG.
With a third child coming the 3rd row of seats (not available in the Jeep) will be key if you need to take one more passenger.
Finally, the Pilot is a crossover SUV and not a truck. Get him to test drive the Pilot to get the feel for the difference in the drive.
Evergreen
As a former jeep owner (actually, lessee) I can shed some light on your problem. First of all, since your brother-in-law has two kids I'd bring up safety first. The Pilot is expected to receive 5 star safety ratings. Second, go for the Honda reliability. My 99 Grand Cherokee lost its transmission at 12,000 miles on Chrismas Eve in rural Massachusetts. Not only was it zero degrees out, but Jeep roadside assistance took hours to arrive. You don't want to put your wife and kids through that, believe me.
Jeep MPG 16 consistently, Pilot anywhere from 20 to 23 MPG.
With a third child coming the 3rd row of seats (not available in the Jeep) will be key if you need to take one more passenger.
Finally, the Pilot is a crossover SUV and not a truck. Get him to test drive the Pilot to get the feel for the difference in the drive.
Evergreen