Let me know when you find one. All you're going to get is "follow the maintenance minder". There are some ad-hoc schedules floating around that were done by some members but that's about it. Don't feel bad or surprised, I was the same way after buying my 2022 about 2 weeks ago. I started searching and found out the hard way.I need to look around and find a good maintenance schedule to follow.
Regardless, welcome (I'm a little new here myself). I too am a 2 time VW owner and after buying an Accord and this new Pilot I would never go back.