Hi all I just received my VCM kit I got from ebay, requires a little bit of assembling but its cheap and it works.
1 Complete VCM Harness, W/ Factory Plugs. Designed for Cars Listed Below that have a Honda 3.5L V6 Engine with VCM. Ridgeline 2007+. Odyssey 2007+ (2005-2006 Odyssey, This kit will work but the the Male Connectors MUST be Modified on your vehicle. ).