Parking the car? Take the keys out of the ignition. This allows stuff in the entertainment stack to completely shut down, all automatic lighting delays to stop, etc.. Overnight with doors or rear hatch window open? Consider opening a window or the sunroof instead. These always apply.
To your specific issue:
-- 350mA is more than 10x what it should be. Mine (Touring trim) sits at about 30-35mA settled, measured with a little clamp-on ammeter. I haven't tried with a DMM but probably should. Taking fuse 23 out and seeing it drop to almost nothing is a great clue though. There have been reports here of folks experiencing similar symptoms after having a scan tool plugged in and doing certain tests. some modules stay "alive" if the key is shut off while the scan tool is still connected. Counter that, I left my BT wireless scan device plugged into the OBD port for a year or so, and ran a datalogger to grab some run dynamics readings and never once had a battery issue. Regardless, their solution was to completely disconnect the battery for a while, and maybe touch the disconnected cables together to make sure there's no residual voltage anywhere that might keep a module alive when the battery is disconnected. You'll get to initialize your radio and maybe NAV unit if you have one, so be ready with the radio code (LX trim only) or the reset procedure (not LX trim) (start engine, hold radio power button down for a bit) when you reconnect the battery.
If you continue to have the symptom after the battery disconnect and retest procedure, the next step is identifying which module is still alive (and why...). Note that the excessive drain current may not actually be flowing through fuse 23, but through another circuit that fuse 23 is keeping alive.
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The tools I use for chasing fugitive current flows include a couple DMM's. I have some pretty expensive Fluke meters, but find that the cheap (~$4) mini meters from Harbor Freight do as well for this particular duty, and the cost of one of those is less than the cost of a meter fuse in a Fluke. So sacrificial, disposable, whatever, the bargain meter gets the job done. I don't know where you are now so can't say what's available there locally.
I found a cute little clamp-on DC ammeter on Amazon that measures down to milliamps without breaking the circuit at all. IIRC it was about $40, and has been really handy often enough to justify the cost at least to me. There are several that are exactly the same except for the Chinese brand name. It measures as accurately as the Flukes but at a tiny fraction of the cost, plus has the clamp-on the my other DMM's lack.
I have a few fuse-replacer digital ammeters, basically for reading current that's flowing through a fuse without having to fabricate a test harness myself. The bigger one will supposedly carry 30 amps but I wouldn't plan on that for any extended period.
I initially made a set of needle probes out of common paper-clips, and wrap them around the tip of a regular set of meter probes. I've since purchased some much more elegant sets of test leads and probes, at a cost significantly higher that the cost of those sacrificial meters. I can use those needle probes to test voltage (millivolts) drop across fuses in-circuit, testing through those tiny openings in the back of the fuses without removing the fuse. There are some interesting online "guides" that claim to be able to relate voltage drop across different fuse sizes to accurately measure current passing through. I'm a little skeptical, mostly because there's no guaranteed consistency in the alloys used in the melty part of the various fuse sizes and manufacturers, or even the batches from the same company. So I do use voltage drop as a test, and if I really want to see quantitatively what's going on in a circuit I use a real meter in series with the fuse. My cheap DMM's only read to ten amps max in-circuit, so I get to manage the instruments I use to make sure they have the capability of measuring the highest current the circuit might present. A mistake means another $4 sacrificial meter to replace...
To your specific issue:
-- 350mA is more than 10x what it should be. Mine (Touring trim) sits at about 30-35mA settled, measured with a little clamp-on ammeter. I haven't tried with a DMM but probably should. Taking fuse 23 out and seeing it drop to almost nothing is a great clue though. There have been reports here of folks experiencing similar symptoms after having a scan tool plugged in and doing certain tests. some modules stay "alive" if the key is shut off while the scan tool is still connected. Counter that, I left my BT wireless scan device plugged into the OBD port for a year or so, and ran a datalogger to grab some run dynamics readings and never once had a battery issue. Regardless, their solution was to completely disconnect the battery for a while, and maybe touch the disconnected cables together to make sure there's no residual voltage anywhere that might keep a module alive when the battery is disconnected. You'll get to initialize your radio and maybe NAV unit if you have one, so be ready with the radio code (LX trim only) or the reset procedure (not LX trim) (start engine, hold radio power button down for a bit) when you reconnect the battery.
If you continue to have the symptom after the battery disconnect and retest procedure, the next step is identifying which module is still alive (and why...). Note that the excessive drain current may not actually be flowing through fuse 23, but through another circuit that fuse 23 is keeping alive.
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The tools I use for chasing fugitive current flows include a couple DMM's. I have some pretty expensive Fluke meters, but find that the cheap (~$4) mini meters from Harbor Freight do as well for this particular duty, and the cost of one of those is less than the cost of a meter fuse in a Fluke. So sacrificial, disposable, whatever, the bargain meter gets the job done. I don't know where you are now so can't say what's available there locally.
I found a cute little clamp-on DC ammeter on Amazon that measures down to milliamps without breaking the circuit at all. IIRC it was about $40, and has been really handy often enough to justify the cost at least to me. There are several that are exactly the same except for the Chinese brand name. It measures as accurately as the Flukes but at a tiny fraction of the cost, plus has the clamp-on the my other DMM's lack.
I have a few fuse-replacer digital ammeters, basically for reading current that's flowing through a fuse without having to fabricate a test harness myself. The bigger one will supposedly carry 30 amps but I wouldn't plan on that for any extended period.
I initially made a set of needle probes out of common paper-clips, and wrap them around the tip of a regular set of meter probes. I've since purchased some much more elegant sets of test leads and probes, at a cost significantly higher that the cost of those sacrificial meters. I can use those needle probes to test voltage (millivolts) drop across fuses in-circuit, testing through those tiny openings in the back of the fuses without removing the fuse. There are some interesting online "guides" that claim to be able to relate voltage drop across different fuse sizes to accurately measure current passing through. I'm a little skeptical, mostly because there's no guaranteed consistency in the alloys used in the melty part of the various fuse sizes and manufacturers, or even the batches from the same company. So I do use voltage drop as a test, and if I really want to see quantitatively what's going on in a circuit I use a real meter in series with the fuse. My cheap DMM's only read to ten amps max in-circuit, so I get to manage the instruments I use to make sure they have the capability of measuring the highest current the circuit might present. A mistake means another $4 sacrificial meter to replace...