I won't say anything if you don't say anything.
One thing to consider is third row seat access in the pilot when carting both adults and toddlers with car seats. Last week-end we needed to put our niece's (x2) car seats in the back to accomodate 3 other adults (the adults are far more confortible in the middle row than the back. Incidentally, it's difficult for the middle row seats to slide forward with car seats installed on them anyway.
It was challenging getting, one, the car seats installed back there and, two, loading-up the kids. Now you most likely won't have this challenge with only your wife and two bambinos, but if when you're in this situation, it would be nice to have better flexibility.
I also contemplated getting the Odessy, but my wife liked the "coolness" factor of an SUV. The wife wanted the SUV - go figure. But, now that my daughter is 10, this situation isn't usually a problem.
Although I would agree that the minivan isn't the babe magnet as an SUV, some may shoot me here for saying this, but you have more flexibility with the minivan for carting kids and adults.
Did I just say that outloud?
Good luck and congrats!
(Admin, what??? no spell check? I apologize in advance if I've offended anyone here for any mispellings).