I had a positive experience at Madison Honda, Madison, NJ. Contact info can be found at
www.madisonhonda.com. My salesperson was Jacob. I have a red Pilot EX-L on order at MSRP. They did not attempt to charge a premium or force dealer options.
Changing the subject, I am actually considering canceling my order to purchase the Volvo Cross Country station wagon. If I do, maybe you can get lucky and take my place in the queue.